Ep 66 What You Most Need To Hear: Why Is This Taking So Long?

Ep 66 What You Most Need To Hear: Why Is This Taking So Long?

Hi, my name is Elise Lebeau, I’m the Left Brain Intuitive intuitive and welcome to the Left Brain Intuition podcast. That special place where we talk about logic and intuition.

Today I have an intuitive message for you, that may resonate with you.

What you most need to hear today is about why does this taking so long?This is something you’ve been wondering for a while. Why is this taking so long?

So today I might cough by the way, I apologize, I might cough a few times, I’m still battling COVID but I really wanted to do this podcast today.

So, life is not a race. And you know, that, you know that logically because if you’re rush through life to get to the end, the end is that we die and we move on.

And you know that logically, but emotionally what’s happening is that you keep trying to rush through the phases that are a little bit more challenging. And what is a challenge, really? It’s really a growth phase. You’re changing.

And ironically the purpose of life is to grow.

When I look at energy, which I’m very blessed to be able to see, I go deeper and deeper into their energy and who they really are and their essence, I ended up seeing very, very tiny little particles that are sort of dancing.

And they’re dancing together, they’re grouped. and organized as this person.

So they don’t want to dance with other people, they just want to dance with their partners here and those lots and lots of them. And they all danced together. And this is the smallest particle of a person.

And these particles, you know, they they’re single-minded.
They want to flow energy.

Because as long as energy flows through us, we are alive, we are here in this physical body.

Life wants to flow, and as life flows, it grows.

So honestly the purpose of these tiny little particle of life, which is what you’re made of, it’s just to grow into something new and different, a more advanced version of who you were.

And all of life is organized this way. Even things that grow really slowly, they are leaning into their own personal growth.

When I call myself an intuition coach, I’m actually probably a growth coach, because I teach people how to go from being stuck to finding their next steps.

So that they’re not stuck anymore.

And then that moment, that beautiful transition, it’s like life is so excited.

And that’s probably what makes me so happy to do this.

I don’t need to work, I work because I love it. But the reason I love it is because in that moment, I see all the particles of life that make up this person who was stuck and it was not moving forward. It’s like, I hear them go Weeeeeee like they’re in some kind of a roller coaster, having fun.

Now our brain doesn’t understand that because if you were aware of what everything in your body is doing right now, what your liver, your spleen, you would be overwhelmed.

So that stuff is kept subconscious.

And to be honest with you, the fact that I read energy is a lovely blessing, but it is very distracting, because sometimes when I’m talking to somebody, I will see something in your energy, which would, in anybody else be pushed down into their subconscious.

So they wouldn’t be aware of it.

But my luck is that I get to see it anyway. So sometimes I’m distracted and I have to stop in the middle of the sentence to process the information that I just received.

So, what does it have to do with why it’s taking so long?

In the years that I’ve been to 20 years, that I’ve been giving intuitive readings, there’s two patterns of energy that I see when somebody is in a growth phase.

The first one is the “high contrast pattern“, where something traumatizing is happening. Something really hard.

There’s a lot of push to move you forward very fast. It’s kind of like you’re holding on for dear life to a rocket ship.

What does that look like? People who have a near death experience in an accident, they almost die.

People who get a divorce and their entire life is deconstructed during that time.

People who decide to quit their job permanently their career and go back to school, redefining who they are.

Those are major life changing, disrupting, intense events. This is a lot of very powerful fuel though for change. They’re just so much, it’s like rocket fuel. So you’re a rocket that you’re holding on for dear life is going even faster because of all the change, all the growth and life is excited about it, but at the same time, I’m sure you can see how that can be a little scary.

So this high fuel, high change, high growth phase can be a really big trigger of change, but it can be really uncomfortable.

Man, that’s a tough transition, you know, when you have to deconstruct your entire life with a bulldozer, it’s it can be very painful and scary.

Now the second pattern of energy, where I see people change something in their lives is more like a “puzzle“.

They take a little piece of tile and they put it in. And then they step back and then they take another little piece of tile and they go, oh yeah. I think that goes here cause it’s a similar color, it’s like they’re putting together a puzzle.

You don’t need to go fast when you’re putting together a puzzle. On the contrary, it’s not a race.

You’re just trying to put the pieces together and it’s fun to go slowly.

If you’re doing a puzzle with somebody, maybe it’s fun to just put the pieces together and go, oh, look, that’s the fence. I found the last piece of the edge, I know what’s going on here, I know how big this puzzle is now. How cool is that?

Notice how slower the paces and the puzzle. Versus this really high fuel rocket.

Now, both of them are very lovely growth process.
And some people prefer the high fuel, the high change, the quick pace.
And some people prefer the puzzle that is a little bit slower.

Then, once in a while, they’ll do something outside their comfort zone.

So the puzzle people will all of a sudden find themselves in a major deconstructing situation and they’re growing really, really fast because there’s all a fuel going through.

And likewise people who do a lot of very fast paced growing will find themselves doing a puzzle. And it’s in these cases that we’ve become disoriented.

And we’re like, why is this taking so long? I’m used to things going, boom, boom, boom. Why has it been two years and I still haven’t finished this.

What’s wrong with me.

And it’s in that moment that we become disoriented here. We don’t have a good frame of reference because the frame of reference has changed.

And if you judge the puzzle with the criteria that you would use for a rocket, you’re going to be very disappointed.

You’re going to think something is wrong.

That you’re broken. That all of a sudden you can get stuff done. Which is not what’s happening here.

What’s happening here is you’re getting all the benefits of doing a puzzle in a much slower pace, because it’s so much more comfortable. It’s so much more comfortable.

But it takes more time, it’s just a trade off. You’re still growing. You’re still doing, going in the right direction.

But this one takes more time.

And this I think is particularly hard for women who are more perfectionist or Type A or they’ve gotten stuff done, you know, in their life.

And all of a sudden things slow down, and they judge it as being broken.

What you most need to hear today is that you’re not broken: You’re just using a different strategy.

And the reason that it’s taking longer it’s because it’s going to be so much more comfortable, if you do it this way for this particular situation.

Maybe it’s taking a long time for you to find your next job. Or maybe it’s taking a long time for you to close a relationship that is no longer serving you.

Or maybe it’s taking a long time for you to get your finances in order so that you feel good about where you are.

Whatever it is that you’re doing right now, the fact that it’s taking longer is not a bad sign. Now, if you’re stuck though, that’s different.

If you’re not feeling like you’re moving forward, that’s completely different. And that’s something that you want to address.

That’s something where you want to tap into your intuition and ask, why am I stuck?

But it feels very different to be completely stuck and not moving forward, then to be moving forward, it just seems slow.

Those are two different things.

And the first one you’re never going to get there because if you’re stuck, you’re not moving towards you goal. And the second one, you know, that you moving forward, you can see in the last six months, that things have improved, it’s just in slow motion. And that one you will get there. Not quickly, but more comfortably, but you will get there.

And that one I’m not worried about you.

And that’s what I wanted to tell you today. I’m not worried about you right now. If you just feel it’s going slow, but you moving forward, you are going in the right direction. Keep going.

All right. That’s all I’m getting for you today. I hope this was helpful.

And if you love those messages, I’d love to have you on my intuitive community for logical women who love tapping into their intuition when they feel when they feel stuck. You can join us at LeftBrainIntuition.com.

See you there!