Intuitive Message: Are You Living In a Chaotic Family?

Hi, my name is Elise. I’m the Left Brain Intuitive and today I’m wondering if this message is for you. Today’s message is for a woman who is feeling that she lives in a very chaotic family.

You’re pushed this way, that way. You are caught in a storm of emotional upheaval. And it’s really hard to find ourselves, our center, when we are in a storm like that.

You know, if you’re outside and it’s raining hard and it’s blowing sideways and you’re just wearing your regular clothes, it’s going to be really hard for you to be very spiritual in that moment and to be focused on who you are.

You’re going to pay attention to the rain and the storm and the fact that you’re cold and this is what’s happening here.

You are caught in a storm of everybody else’s emotional stuff.

Not yours, just theirs. And it’s a reflex for you, a reflex from when you were very little. As a child, you start to do this. When you see emotional upheaval, you want to take care of it. So you’ve been trying to put out other people’s fires in their lives a lot for a long time.

And the reason this message is coming in for you today is because I want to make it very clear that there is a cost to your physical body when you do that over a long period of time.

You are paying a toll. And I’m a little concerned that It’s going to burn you up and eventually you’re going to have symptoms come up that are going to be very difficult to heal.

Because this emotional upheaval is constantly triggering your nervous system. You’re always in a state of emotional activation.

And then you try to help other people and you have no power there, you know? It’s a, it’s a very powerless thing to try to change other people’s lives, unless they ask for help.

You’ve probably heard that about people who go to rehab, right? It’s not until they’re ready that they can actually change and take advantage of the program.

And most people relapse because they’re not ready yet. They haven’t hit rock bottom, and I’m concerned that you’re going to hit rock bottom in a very damaging way to your physical body.

The intuitive message I’m receiving for you today is that becoming aware that you’re doing this, because it’s a reflex, I’m not sure you realize that you’re doing this, but if this sounds like you, you feel you live in chaos and you have the reflex of trying to help other people around you with their emotional distress, with their, their tough times. Then there is a moment of clarity here for you that this is not the way you were built.

This happened to you. So when you were little and you started to want to take care of everybody’s burden, and issues, and problems, it’s it was a very reasonable thing to do, because you’re very sensitive.

And so you sensed other people’s emotional upheaval, and it made you feel bad.

And the only way to stop feeling bad was to solve their emotional upheaval. Solve their problem. Because if you solve their problem and they feel better, then you feel better.

Literally. Unfortunately, this is not a very successful strategy. It’s not a very easy thing to do and there’s no power there for you.

So you can’t make them be happy, right? So if this is the strategy that you’re using for you to be happier, by making them happy, it’s, it’s not going to be efficient. And that’s what’s happening is the older you get in your life, the harder it is. Because the problem that used to be simple to solve are now complicated and more complicated,

they have history. And sometimes as we age, if we don’t take care of a problem, it’ll get worse. It gets infected, so to speak, from an energy perspective.

And now it’s harder for you to keep everybody happy, so that you can be happy someday. I mean, at this point, I think you realize that this is not working.

You’re not happy. And that’s because the strategy you’re using is not working anymore. It has become too hard.

So,

the intuitive message for you is, first of all, having clarity about the fact that this is you. I’m talking to you right now. And you just went: Oh, right, that does sound like me. And right there, right there, this moment of clarity is so filled with potential. It’s so filled with hope. Because now that you know that there’s an actual problem here,

you were not built that way. God does not want you to burn yourself up trying to fix other people. That’s not the plan here for you.

Now you know that, oh, there’s something here that needs to change. so that I can be happier in my life, so that I can hear myself more, and then I can find my actual life purpose, and you can realign yourself with God, or divinity, or universe.

You can try to tell everybody, please be quiet. This is a lot of work, and it’s not always successful. Or you can extract yourself from the situation and go to a quiet place.

I don’t feel that you necessarily go rent a 500 Airbnb for the weekend.

So, I’m gonna give you something simpler to start with, to extract yourself from the chaos without needing people to be quiet.

Get in your car and drive to a quiet parking lot. You know, after hours in a church, in a church parking lot, a place where there’s nobody right now, you know, when you don’t have people in your immediate vicinity, it’s easier to be focused on you.

For example, if you go to church, don’t get out of the car and go inside to pray with other people because there’s people there and that’s gonna trigger you. You’re gonna turn your attention to them and you don’t realize you’re doing it. It’s a reflex. But then it creates this noise.

Stay in the parking lot, or wherever you can go that there’s not a lot of people there. And stay in the car, just, it doesn’t have to be long, 10, 15 minutes is enough.

And a place to start to reconnect with who you are and with your intuition, because that’s really what I’m interested in, is giving you tools that you can use in your everyday life to reconnect with your intuition, is to start to ask yourself, what do I want?

What do I want today? And I feel that you like to write and I see you writing in a journal, so pen and paper, it feels like this is a better fit for you.

So just bring a notebook could be just lined paper from your son, can be like spare sheets from your printer, doesn’t have to be fancy, but bring something to write on and a pen and ask yourself, okay, what do I want today?

And it’s a general question, right? It’s a little bit vague. You see that, but it’s good because it’s not going to constrict the answer. So maybe the first time that you asked yourself that, what do I want is maybe you’ll talk about what you want in the future, or maybe you’ll talk about what you want today, or maybe you’ll talk about what you wanted in the past that never became true.

And you still want that.

And those are all good answers, because they’re about you. And the louder you can focus on your voice, on who you are, the easier it’s going to be to tune out other people. Now, that’s not selfish. It’s not selfish to turn up the volume on who you are and to turn down the volume on who they are.

It’s a little bit like if you’re in your house and you’re listening to TV, and there’s a neighbor and their window is open, and you’re window to window, and they’re listening to their TV, but their sound is louder than yours. That’s tricky, right? Because now you’re looking at pictures that have to do with the show you’re watching, but you’re hearing the sound from their show.

It’s completely conflicting. And they’re watching a horror movie. They love that. They love watching that horror movie, but you hate it. And so the show that you’re watching, maybe it’s a cooking show, has audio from people getting hacked to pieces. That’s a problem. And that’s the problem we’re trying to solve.

We want you to listen to the show that’s playing in your living room. So we want you to close the window. Now, notice we’re not going to ask them, can you turn down your TV? Because they can say no. That’s not convenient for us. We want to close the window. That’s all. We just want to close the window. We want to let them watch their show.

And now we want to watch your show with your audio, the stuff that’s relevant to you. And that’s what this 10 15 minutes in the car can do for you. And I think in the beginning you’ll do it maybe when you’re at the end of your rope and that’s okay, but I think in time you’ll start to do it just because it feels good to be you.

And the more you do it, the more your life will get into alignment with who you are, first of all, with your higher self, and then ultimately with God, divinity, universe. And this is when we really feel connected to our true life purpose. Which is where you’re trying to go right now.

All right. That’s all I’m getting for you today.

I hope this was helpful and I’ll talk to you soon. You know, I post all of these messages on my intuitive community for logical women at leftbrainintuition.com.

See you there.