[33] Intuitive Message: Suspicious of Lying Husband

Hi, my name is Elise Lebeau. I’m the Left Brain Intuitive, and I’m wondering if this message is for you. I receive anonymous intuitive messages, and I don’t usually know who asked the question. Occasionally, someone will ask a specific question for the podcast, which you can do if you go to leftbrainintuitive.com/ask. It’s completely anonymous. You don’t need to tell me your name or your birthday—just where you feel stuck.

Understanding Intuitive Messages

Someone asked me, “How do I know if the message is for me?”
That’s such a good question, and there’s kind of a twofold answer.

Resonance with Intuitive Messages

The first one is that if this message is for you, it’s going to resonate with you. Really, what I’m doing when I’m receiving an intuitive message for you is acting as a third party reading the information that is already in your energy, which I call your hard drive because I’m a software engineer. Everything’s a computer for me. Intuition is information that is subconscious. It’s stored somewhere in your body, mind, or energy—on your hard drive. Normally, you would use your intuition to access that information. However, over the years, I have found that intuition is a little bit like surgery. It’s much easier to do it on someone else than it is on ourselves.

So, when I say it, because it’s on your hard drive—somewhere in your subconscious—you’re going to go, “Oooooh,” and it will resonate with you. That’s how you know this message is for you.

Shared Experiences

The second answer is that I do these intuitive readings over a podcast because, often, several people in my audience have a common problem. They’re all stuck in the same place and need to hear the same thing to move forward. I find that it’s like my community service. I was a professional intuitive for 20 years, giving intuitive readings. I’m retired now, but I still love doing it. That’s why I choose this format. If you’re stuck, you can either ask me for an intuitive reading or just listen to the readings I give to other people. You’re probably going to find something that resonates with you, too.

Today’s Intuitive Message

Today’s message is for a woman who is struggling with what she suspects is a cheating husband. This is true for many relationships. Sometimes we’re in a relationship with a friend, a boss, or a colleague, and something doesn’t feel quite right. You can’t put your finger on it. In this case, the reason I want to give you this intuitive message today is that I feel you’re heading in a dangerous direction.

Acknowledging Suspicions

So, you suspect something’s not right—either he’s lying about something, hiding something, or having an affair. You’re very tentative about it and afraid to know. I’m not sure if you’ve asked him point blank. I think you did, and he denied it. It didn’t feel right either, and you didn’t move on into a conversation of, “Well, if you’re not cheating on me, why do I feel unsafe in our relationship enough to suspect this?” That’s an important conversation to have. It’s possible he’s not cheating on you. Maybe it’s a problem with feeling insecure. However, in this case, it’s not just that. You’re not just worried he’s having an affair. He’s been verbally abusive a few times.

Recognizing Dangerous Patterns

He hasn’t put you in the hospital because I think you would have left for that, right? But he’s on the edge of saying things that are a little manipulative, and you feel guilty enough about them that it hooks you. There’s potential for physical violence against you. If you suspect you might be in danger someday, it’s time to leave now. This is true for many relationships. Sometimes we delay adjusting a relationship because we think, “Well, maybe it’s not that bad, maybe it’ll get better, maybe I’m wrong, maybe I’m overreacting.” If these thoughts pop into your head, it’s time to leave now. It’s out of fear for your safety that this intuitive message is coming through me.

Preparing for a Safe Exit

However, there’s another reason it’s coming through me. You fear what will happen to you if you adjust this relationship. Maybe your finances are intertwined, you don’t work right now, or you don’t have anywhere to go. When I say you need to leave now, it means the decision to leave is made internally. You don’t have to tell anyone at this point because you need to set yourself up for success in exiting this relationship. You’re afraid you can’t do it.

So, the first part was acknowledging that your feeling of not feeling safe needs to be heard. The second part is your fear that you won’t be able to survive without him. You can’t figure this out financially or your living situation might be complicated. You might have some income, but it’s not enough. Right now, you’re not in a good position to exit. However, if you internally decide to leave this relationship, you don’t have to say anything yet. The new question you’re asking your intuition is: How can I exit this relationship comfortably for me?

Focusing on Your Well-being

Notice that we’re not asking for him to be comfortable. As long as you do everything you need to stay safe and honor your feelings, what he feels is not in your power. We can’t make other people happy or unhappy—they choose that in their own heads.

The goal here is to make a decision internally on how you want to adjust the relationship. You don’t have to tell anyone. It’s just to admit it to yourself and then start asking your intuition to show you ways to exit this relationship comfortably for you. Pay attention to the things that show up for you.

Enhancing Your Intuition

Intuition in its raw form can be ambiguous. That’s why I always encourage every woman I talk to to figure out a way to hear her intuition clearly and articulate it. If you’re looking for a quick way, go to my intuitive community at leftbrainintuition.com.

I have a free training there. It’s 60 seconds per lesson, and at the end, I show you how to get clear, articulated intuitive insight. It’s my favorite technique to teach people. Start asking your intuition, “What can I do to exit comfortably for me?”

It’s very important that you ask only about YOURSELF. If you start asking about him, you’ll get garbage because you’re not trained to get intuitive insight for other people.

Intuitive insight is meant to be a form of guidance, and you can’t guide him. He doesn’t want you to, and it’s really none of your business what’s going on internally for him.

Listening to Your Intuition

I don’t know if you’ll hear me the first time you listen to this message, and that’s okay. If you’re thinking, “Oh, maybe that’s not me,” that’s okay. I hope that if it pops back into your head later, you’ll listen again and hear the validation and confirmation that your intuition is talking to you right now. It’s time to listen.

That’s all I’m getting for you today. I hope this was helpful, and I’ll talk to you soon.