INTUITIVE MESSAGE: Do You Live In A House Where Everyone Is Unhappy

Hi, my name is Elise Lebeau. I’m the Left Brain Intuitive, and I have received an anonymous intuitive message and I’m wondering if it’s for you.

Today’s message is for a woman who is currently living in a house where everybody is unhappy. There are multiple family members. Younger ones and older ones. I feel like maybe you have also a parent that lives with you or a housemate that is older than you. So there are multiple people in the house and everybody is unhappy, and it’s been like that for a while, and at this point, it’s contagious.

So everybody’s unhappiness is splashing over everybody else and it’s making it worse. People are snapping at each other. Everybody’s trying to find a way out, you know, find a way out of this very difficult situation. I feel that it’s also maybe related to money. I don’t know if somebody lost a job and there’s less money available. And so things that used to be comfort in the family are not there anymore. And there’s uncertainty.

So there’s fear in the house as well, of the future. The intuitive message for you today, if this resonates with you, the description of the problem. The intuitive message is that it doesn’t matter what other people are doing. It doesn’t matter here. This is not where things start to get better. It doesn’t start with other people. If you want things to get better, you have to start with you.

So any energy that you were spending to try to help other people. I don’t feel that you’re the one looking for a job. So I feel that there’s somebody in your house that’s looking for a job and you’re trying to help them. That’s not productive. If somebody is unhappy with their friends, you trying to help them, that’s not productive.

Trying to have them be happier is not how this is going to get better. Instead, what your intuition has been telling you, and it’s interesting because I do feel you are intuitive, your intuition is trying to tell you, start with you and start with something that makes you happy. You have a hobby that you used to do and you stopped. I see you doing something with your hands. I don’t know if it’s knitting or if it’s playing the piano, but your fingers are moving. But it’s some kind of activity like that. And you used to do that and you stopped. Because the desire to do it has drained out of you. And it’s too bad because this activity was a great way for you to bring, it would soothe you first of all, but it would also bring a sort of more joyous energy within you.

So you were more grounded and centered when you do this activity. And then it also kind of put a smile on your face and that’s contagious too. And it feels odd to do that, right? When, when it sounds, it feels like the world is crumbling around you. It feels odd to knit or to play the piano. But, this is what your family needs right now. This is what your family needs you to do. Isn’t that interesting? But the reason you don’t feel like doing it, and this is not about forcing yourself to do it,

this is about, stopping the energy leaks, where you’re trying to fix the problem by giving your energy to other people or trying to help them. So you’re trying to make the household happier by making other people happier, and this is not productive.

It’s more productive if you stop doing that first. I know this is, this sounds counterintuitive, but stop being helpful. It doesn’t feel good anyway. I think that when you try to help people in your family, people shut you down. They’re upset. They’re angry. And it turns into an argument. And so that’s discouraging because you’re trying to help them,

and here they are, and not even grateful, but, but also angry. And this is really a great indicator, usually that the help is not productive. It’s not a good use of your beautiful energy. And you do have beautiful energy. I know you’re unhappy right now, but, but underneath all that you do have really powerful and beautiful energy.

You have the energy to inspire, which is pretty cool. And it would be more productive if first you stop. Giving help to people around you, just, just not in a brutal way or by saying, “Oh, I don’t want to talk to you.” That’s not it. It’s not, it’s not unpleasant like that. It’s just that you, when they talk about their problem, you just listen and you support them, but without trying to solve their problem. It takes a lot of energy to solve other people’s problem, by the way.

And when you stop doing that, you’re going to have more energy. And when you have more energy, you are going to want to pick up whatever it is, that thing that you do with your fingers, you’re going to want to pick it up. And then you’re going to start having moments in your day where you feel grounded and you feel inspired.

And even though nobody is gonna, you don’t have to do it in front of anybody, you can do it in your own room, but eventually you might do it in the living room or something. And you can be basically a fountainhead of inspiration. A fountainhead of, you know what, right now I’m okay. And you might find that people start to just sit beside you to get some of that.

To bask in that flow that you’re in, because that is contagious, and it’s gonna feel good to them all of a sudden to just sit in silence, or if you’re playing music and listening to the music, and let that roll over them. Now, this is not like, you know, taking antibiotics when, when you have an infection.

So this is not like a one-time thing that’s going to suddenly change the whole household. But if you were to focus on doing that for the next, let’s say 30 days, 30 days is a good amount of time. You would draw your energy from helping other people to try to fix the mood in the household. And then you use, you let that energy pool up and you use that energy to.

To be inspired and to pick up your hobby and then you just be yourself and radiate and it’s going to do the rest. There’s no effort there. There’s no additional effort. The effort is really going to be for you to try to withdraw from trying to solve other people’s problems in your family. That’s going to be the hard part.

But, you know, typically people can do something for 30 days and then after the 30 days you can see if things have improved. And they will have, and then you’ll naturally be inspired to continue. And then you’ll start to have more ideas on more things you can do to inspire your family in a different direction than the pit where they’re heading right now.

And that’s going to feel very good. They don’t need to know. They don’t need to know what you’re doing. They don’t need to know that you’ve got a brand new strategy here or where you want to drive this family. You can keep that to yourself if you want to. It’s fine. They’ll just know that, you know, a month from now, they’ll be feeling better.

There’s going to be more smiling in the house. Ah, and that’s wonderful. All right. That’s all I’m getting for you today. I hope this was helpful. And by the way, I publish those messages on my intuitive community for logical women at leftbrainintuition.com. And I’d love to have you there. Talk to you soon.